It’s not a question because I want to give you the answer right from the top.
Confidence comes from you, when you accept yourself fully.
It’s that easy.
You do not need to be perfect. You do not need to do more work on yourself. It’s now.
You can claim your confidence right now in this very moment without trying to “better” yourself, make yourself smarter, more beautiful or nicer. Blah. That’s all actually contra productive to confidence.
It took me long time to get that and to understand that there is no end point to confidence either.
You will be changing almost every day, if not every moment so how can you judge your confidence based on changeable things and outcomes?
Why would you think you can be confident only when you make good money from your business? Or if you have X numbers of client? Or when you are in that relationship you always wanted to be?
Your confidence is tightly linked with what you believe you deserve. If you are convinced that you do not deserve something (and the lack of that is showing up in your life as evidence) you will very unlikely FEEL confident.
But the trick is to understand that AND decide anyhow “I am choosing to be confident today”. No Matter what.
- No matter what others think of me.
- No matter what I have to show for it in my life.
- No matter what the “Confidence standard” is.
Do you get it?
So how do yo start?
Start today. This morning. FEEL it in your body the deliciousness of surrendering to the moment. That you do not need to do anything, you do not need to get anything and yo do not need to become something else. Pure ease.
It takes practice to get there since you are not used to it BUT IT WORKS.
Trust me. I am someone coming from a very low confidence background. And I had to convince myself that I am good, deserving and loved. Those things were not natural for me. And I am still working on it.
But it’s a pleasure to work on what is so so much important for my life and which is actually the only thing which works.
To ease stress, anxiety, self-doubt.
Are you ready to get to work?
Let me know.
With Love, Andre xoxo
